Tension is:
Often Challenging and Difficult
Outside Comfort Zone or Settled Law
Demanding Humility and Openness to Learn
Carries Benefit in the Wrestling and Working Required
Presents a Choice: 1) ignore. 2) Reject. 3) Give in. 4) Study.
Challenges you to seek Balance when it is Easier to Fall to one side.
Unhealthy Tension is:
Always seeking to get out of the conflict.
Anxious or Angry until you do.
Healthy Tension is:
Finding Value in the Process for Growth.
Healthy Tension Truths:
Tensions are often unsolvable
Just choosing a side won't work for long
Wisdom is often found in resistance
Compromise is usually not the answer
"And" is a better word than "But"
4 CRUCIAL KEYS:
LOVE
HUMILITY
PATIENCE
FAITHFULNESS